Robert Elmo Stingley
February 26, 1965  -  June 19, 2017

Robert Elmo Stingley

Sacred Heart Catholic Church
333 S. 8th Street
Fairfax, OK  74637
Tuesday, June 27, 2017
10 a.m.
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Fairfax Cemetery
600 S. 8th Street
Fairfax, OK  74637
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Robert Elmo Stingley, age 52, a resident of rural Ponca City, Oklahoma died Monday, June 19, 2017 at his home in Osage County.

Born on February 26, 1965 to Bobby Eugene and Billie (Gilbert) Stingley at Wichita, KS, he grew up in Elgin, KS attending school in his early years at Bowring OK. Bobby graduated with the class of 1983 at Pawhuska, OK. He was a member of the Osage Nation.

Bobby was an avid sports fan, his favorite teams included Dallas Cowboys, Boston Celtics and the St. Louis Cardinals; he loved classical rock and attending the Ben Johnson steer roping and Calvacade.

He worked beside his dad growing up in the oilfield and the cattle industry as well. Later, working at various jobs in the Ponca City area and at Hunter’s Modern Appliance in Ponca City, OK for several years.

Bobby is survived by his mother, Billie Stingley of Fairfax; wife, Rebecca Wamego; one son, Robert A. Stingley both of Pawhuska; two uncles, Mark Goad and Don Buckles; numerous other extended family and life-long friends.

He was preceded in death by his father, Bobby Eugene Stingley; one sister, Billie Jo Stingley; great grandparents, Charles and Hattie Goad, Nora and Elmo Stingley.

The funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. Tuesday, June 27, 2017 at the Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Fairfax, Oklahoma with Father Sean Donovan, presiding. Burial will follow in the Fairfax Cemetery under the direction of the Hunsaker-Wooten Funeral Home.

Casket bearers will be Ira Lookout, Scott Bighorse, Hank Heinzinger, Les Thorton, Tom Parrish and Sean McGuire. Honorary bearers are Joe Cheshewalla, Jon Hinman and Steve Grassman.

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  1. John Wood
    Sedan, KS

    Thoughts n Prayers to the family..Bobby and I go back a long ways. Til we meet again old friend.

  2. Susan wamego
    Skiatook, OK

    I am so sorry for your loss Cuzin. Wish I had known Sooner to be there for you. Prayers for you and your son and his mother . Asking God to warp all three of you up in his arms and give you all peace and comfort and healing during this time of pain. Love you CUZIN to the moon and back. Call me anytime. Much love sent to you from miles away. Susan

  3. Teresa smith
    Pawhuska, OK

    You will be missed dearly fly high my friend gone but not for gotten love you Rebecca

  4. Tonya Todd Neff
    Barnsdall, OK

    Hugs and prayers for you and the family. So sorry for your loss.

  5. Kelly Metcalf

    Started grade school at Bowring with Bobby, so sorry for your loss, prayers going out for his mother and all his family.

  6. Stacey (Hall) Coln
    Tupelo, MS

  7. Maggie & bristol.
    Stillwater, OK

  8. Kylene
    Pawhuska, OK

    My love and prayers to you and all the family!

  9. Cherokee Cheshewalla
    Pawhuska, OK

    Prayers go out to you and your son Much love from us.

  10. Sidney Kohpay

    Prayers for the family. Watched this young man grow up at Bowring, super great person.

  11. Jackie Gullett Yocham
    Barnsdall, OK

    Prayers sent!! Love & hugs!!

  12. Pam Meyer
    Pawhuska, OK

    Rebecca my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today as you lay Bobby to rest I have lots of memories of Bobby in High School he was lots of fun to be around and was a good person. He will be missed.

  13. Misty Lockman Daniels
    Stillwater, OK

    Thoughts and prayers with the your family and friends.

  14. Ethan Wamego
    Claremore, OK

  15. Barbara Thoenburg
    Pawhuska, OK

    My heart and prayers go out to Rebecca and his family. I remember Bobby always with a smile when we were in high school. My condolences to all.

  16. Tjuana. Boulanger
    Pawhuska, OK

    Loved you little buddy. I'll never forget our childhood memories, you and all your stinker ways, that laugh of yours could be heard across Bluestem. My heart, thoughts and prayers are with your beautiful family Bobby. This is just temporary. We will all will meet again at those heaven gates. Rest in Peace honey. 💔

  17. Melissa Hanna
    Hominy, OK

  18. Marcua Carroll
    Pawhuska, OK

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time. Bobby was a great friend.

  19. Lola Hestand-Brown
    Pawhuska, OK

    My thoughts & prayers are with your family.

  20. Chet & Sylvia Herren
    Pawhuska, OK

    Love and Prayers for your family!!!!

  21. Charlene cosby
    pawhuska, OK

    May the Lord bless his family with the strength they need to get them thru this.

  22. Lana Hurd and Family
    Pawhuska, OK

    Praying for you sister Rebecca and Robert. I am so sorry for you loss. May God lift you both up and surround you with amazing grace, comfort and strength. You know I am here if you need me. Love, prayers and peace. Love you. Happy

  23. Tricia Thomas and family
    Pawhuska, OK

    My deepest sympathy. Much love!

  24. Lisa Hailey
    Pawhuska, OK

    I'm still in shock at this news. You were way too young Bobby. God bless you family. Please know many prayers are going up for you.

  25. Pat & Jessie Wilson
    Pawhuska, OK

  26. Theresa Flowerette
    Pawhuska, OK


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